The Marriage Mirror® program is built on the belief that a thriving marriage is a reflection of intentional effort and God’s guiding love. We’ve designed a clear, structured path to help you and your spouse cultivate new, positive communication habits.
Our program is divided into three core areas, each vital for a healthy marriage:
- Listening: Discover how you truly hear each other and build a plan for deeper understanding. Listening forms the foundation for all effective communication.
- Speaking: Learn to express yourselves more effectively, fostering clarity and connection.
- Environment: Understand the crucial role your surroundings play in your important discussions.
The Process: Your Path to a Stronger Marriage
After registering, you will be automatically logged in to your Account Dashboard. Your Dashboard will lead you through the program, step by step. Here’s the process you’ll follow for each of the three program areas:
Step 1: Your Personal Assessment. Both you and your partner will begin by completing your individual assessments for the current area (e.g., Listening). In this step, you’ll answer questions about how you perceive your own habits and then how you perceive your partner’s habits within that specific area of communication.
Step 2: Your Partner’s Personal Assessment. Your partner will then complete their personal assessment for the same area, providing their perceptions of their own habits and your habits.
Step 3: Review and Discuss Answers. This is a powerful moment for connection. You’ll gain access to your Marriage Mirror Review, where you can see your answers side-by-side with your partner’s. We provide a Discussion Guide, along with discussion hints and motivation tips to help you prepare for and navigate this conversation. Your insightful discussion will help you identify similarities, differences, and areas for growth and encouragement. The goal is to understand each other’s perspectives, not to criticize. The review serves as your “marriage mirror.”
Step 4: Choose New Skill. Following your review and discussion, you’ll consult your personalized Scoring Chart. This visual comparison of your assessment answers highlights your strengths and areas for growth. Together, you will each thoughtfully choose one specific communication skill from the list to focus on improving. This skill will be integrated into your action plan. We also encourage you to use our “Caught Ya” Feedback Cards and “Heartgrams” to encourage each other as you practice your new skills.
Step 5: Action Plan. Now it’s time to create a practical, measurable plan to implement your chosen skill. Inspired by the wisdom of Dr. Ken Blanchard, this proven process helps you create achievable steps to turn your insights into lasting, positive change. You’ll identify your goal, determine how you’ll know you’re making progress, anticipate potential obstacles, and even plan how you’ll reward yourselves for efforts and successes.
Put Your Plan into Action!
After completing each of the three core areas, we highly recommend practicing your new habits daily for at least 21-30 days to build new routines and see meaningful improvements in your marriage. Discuss your progress and challenges with your partner, and celebrate every step forward!
You’ll have access to the Marriage Mirror program for a full year, giving you the opportunity to revisit sections, reinforce your learning, and continue to celebrate the beautiful transformation in your marriage.
Sign up now and let’s get going! God desires your marriage to be beautiful, rock-solid, and stand the test of time and trouble.