The Marriage Mirror™ program is grounded in the belief that a thriving marriage is a reflection of intentional effort and God’s guiding love. We’ve designed a clear, structured path to help you and your spouse cultivate new, positive communication habits.
Our program is built on The Three Central Pillars of Communication, each vital for a healthy marriage:
- Listening: Discover how you truly hear each other and build a plan for deeper understanding. Listening forms the foundation for all effective communication.
- Speaking: Learn to express yourselves more effectively, fostering clarity and connection.
- Environment: Understand the crucial role your surroundings play in your important discussions.
The 4-Step Proven Process: Your Path to a Stronger Marriage
After registering, you will be automatically logged in to your Account Dashboard. Your Dashboard will lead you through the program, step by step. Here’s the process you’ll follow for each of The Three Central Pillars:
Step 1: GAIN CLARITY WITH ASSESSMENTS. Both you and your partner will begin by completing your individual assessments for the current pillar (e.g., Listening). In this step, you’ll rate your own communication habits and those of your partner within that specific area of communication.
Step 2: CONNECT WITH THE “MIRROR PROCESS”. You’ll gain access to your Marriage Mirror Review, where you can see your assessments side-by-side with your partner’s, and share insights in a guided discussion. This is a powerful moment for connection. We provide a Discussion Guide, along with Discussion Hints and Motivation Tips to help you prepare for and navigate this conversation. This discussion will help you identify similarities, differences, and areas for growth and encouragement. The goal is to understand each other’s perspectives, not to criticize. The review serves as your “marriage mirror.”
Step 3: BUILD NEW HABITS WITH ACTION PLAN. Following your review and discussion, you’ll consult your personalized Scoring Chart. This visual comparison highlights your strengths and areas for growth. Together, you will each thoughtfully choose one specific communication skill from the list to focus on improving. This chosen skill serves as your goal and will be integrated into your action plan. You will then create a practical, measurable plan to put your chosen skill into daily practice. Inspired by the wisdom of Dr. Ken Blanchard, this proven process helps you create achievable steps to turn your insights into lasting, positive change. You’ll determine how you’ll know you’re making progress, anticipate potential obstacles, and even plan how you’ll reward yourselves for efforts and successes.
Step 4: REINFORCE AND CELEBRATE PROGRESS. Now it’s time to put your plan into action! After completing the Action Plan for each Pillar, you’ll begin practicing your new habits daily for at least 21–30 days to build new routines and see meaningful improvements in your marriage. This critical practice period helps you lock in your gains. To ensure these habits stick, we encourage you to use our powerful Visualization Guide for mental practice, along with our “Caught Ya” Feedback Cards and “Heartgrams” to provide positive encouragement and reinforce each other’s practice. Discuss your progress and challenges with your partner, and celebrate every step forward!
You’ll have access to the Marriage Mirror program for a full year, giving you the opportunity to revisit sections, reinforce your learning, and continue to celebrate the beautiful transformation in your marriage.
God desires your marriage to be rock-solid and stand the test of time and trouble.
Sign up now and let’s get going!